Keep reading for fun family Christmas traditions that are a little different than the “norm” and don’t focus primarily on gift-giving.
Dave and I enjoy giving generously to our children throughout the year — especially on their birthdays. However, we’ve always tried to keep Christmas a bit simpler, especially from a consumeristic standpoint.
I come from a family who is big on giving lots of Christmas gifts… so over the last 13+ years, I’ve consciously made an effort to simplify our own family’s Christmas gift-giving traditions.
The kids can still look forward to lots of goodies from grandparents (I don’t have as much control over that) but here in our own home, we’ve tried to take the focus off of receiving gifts during the holidays, and instead spend more time, energy, and money on focusing on what we do for others (either others in our family, our school, our church, or our community).
This doesn’t always look the same every year… but every year usually gets a little simpler, a little easier, and a little less consumeristic!
If you’re looking for ways to simplify your holiday season and reduce consumerism in your home, I’ve got a handful of ideas from my readers!
10 Gift-Free Family Traditions
All of these ideas were submitted by readers on my email list.
1. Book a Family Vacation
Traveling somewhere together as a family (either over Christmas break or at a designated time in the future) is a great way to build memories together and take the focus off gift-giving.
And it doesn’t need to be a fancy, expensive, or exotic vacation to count. You could simply book a hotel or Air B&B in a local town for a couple of nights.
2. Donate to a Family in Need
Several readers mentioned that instead of giving gifts to their own children, their family shops for a local family in need — gifting them with presents and gift cards anonymously.
This tradition could be in addition to gifts for your own children/grandchildren if you don’t want to completely stop that.
3. Volunteer Together
Several other readers mentioned fun family traditions of volunteering together around the holidays (or all year long).
Here are a few ideas suggested many times:
- Serve food at homeless shelters.
- Sing Christmas carols at a nursing home (or wherever).
- Pass out treats to neighbors.
- Make bags of goodies and toiletries for homeless people.
- Volunteer for a local community program (everyone always needs more help this time of year).
- Offer to give a little extra time to your church or school for wherever they need help.
Whatever you decide, you could make a day of it and go out for dinner or dessert afterward, giving you time to discuss the events of your volunteering experiences.
4. Contribute to Charity
Do a little research on local charities that might resonate with you or your children and choose one or more to donate to in your family’s name.
Several readers mentioned this… and here are a few of their ideas:
- Donate library books (new or gently used) to a local children’s hospital or shelter.
- Donate winter gear to a homeless shelter.
- Shop together for groceries that you will then donate to a local food pantry.
- Visit a nursing home
- Choose a child from a 3rd world country to sponsor all year long (Compassion International)
5. Let the Kids Plan Your Festivities
One reader mentioned a really fun tradition — they give each of their children $100 to plan an event, activity, or experience for the entire family.
The kids spend time thinking, planning, and writing down their plans. They open these “plans” on Christmas morning and then complete all the planned activities over Christmas Break.
This is a great way to get your children thinking about what others in the family would like, instead of just themselves… and it removes the focus off of “getting things” and onto “spending time together”.
7. Celebrate Advent Instead of Christmas
Advent is a season of waiting and anticipating Christ’s birth — starting 4 Sundays before Christmas.
Our church celebrates the season of Advent with special candlelightings and readings. This is something you could do at home with your family too.
You could use an Advent calendar, an Advent devotional, or a Jesse Tree (this is what we’re doing this year).
7. Plan a Late-night Christmas Eve Celebration
A few families mentioned their tradition of going to a late-night Christmas Eve church service, followed by late-night snacks/appetizers at home and opening one gift (usually right around midnight).
Other readers mentioned something similar, but focusing on celebrating Jesus’ Birthday at midnight with a cake and a “gift for Jesus” instead of gifts for each other.
Either way, this tradition left Christmas day open to hang out together, instead of opening gifts.
8. Donate Gifts to Angel Tree Kids
Instead of having your children buy gifts for siblings, you could choose a few names off a local Angel Tree and shop with your children to purchase gifts for these kids in need.
We’ve done this before and tried to choose kiddos who were the same age/gender as our kids, which made it a little more meaningful.
9. Enjoy a Family Gift
I love the idea of giving and receiving one “family gift”, as mentioned by several readers.
This takes the focus off what each individual wants and instead, brings the focus back to something fun and enjoyable for the entire family.
Here are a few ideas mentioned by readers:
- popcorn and candy for a movie night at home
- a few games for game night
- gift cards for a meal out together
- ski passes
- a stack of puzzles to work on over the winter
- a trampoline or large item everyone in the family can enjoy
- memberships to the zoo, museum, or other local attraction
- tickets to a concert or other event
- a weekend trip
You’ll find tons more creative ideas if you Google “family gift ideas”.
10. Shop Together
If the idea of going completely gift-free sounds a bit intimidating for you, consider ways to scale back your gift-giving, and make the process a little less “anticipatory”.
For example, you could have each child make a list of a few things they need or want. Then, plan a day and shop together as a family. Let each child pick out a few things from their list, maybe go out for lunch or dessert, and then call it a day.
This saves you tons of time shopping, wrapping, and trying to hide gifts until Christmas day. It also removes the focus on gifts from Christmas but still allows you to be generous towards your children on the specified shopping day.
Related Reading: 10 Clutter-Free Gift Traditions
Keep in mind that making any big changes to how you handle family holidays probably won’t be quick or easy. You might need to make gradual changes over time… and you might get some complaints and pushback.
Also, you are allowed to try something for one year and then decide it’s not for you.
Just because you try a year with fewer (or no) gifts, doesn’t mean you’re locked into never buying another Christmas gift again.
I’d love to know:
Alison says
I love traditions! We do our full Christmas decorating the day after Thanksgiving. We bake lots of cookies ( some for a cookie sale, some for friends and neighbors, some for us). We always send photo Christmas cards. We bake homemade pizzas on Christmas Eve in between church services. On Christmas morning we open gifts from Santa then have a yummy breakfast. We take our time opening a WAnt, Need, Wear, Read after breakfast.
kerri says
We get the kids a new ornament each year and put their name and the year on it. Each year, we can remember them as we decorate the tree. I have some from when I was a child.
Linda says
Wow! I love reading all the comments! Some I already do and some I would like to do.
We always read Luke Chapter 2 on Christmas morning before we open gifts.
JJ says
Speaking of the nativity you have, I did a really cute Christmas craft that involved all my littles. I had seen the idea on Google. I used my baby’a footprint(in brown) as the manger, my oldest’s(3 yr old) thumb print as the body of Jesus(in blue), my daughter’so thumb print as the head of Jesus(in tan), and my son stamped a star above it. I wrote Lukes 2:12 at the bottom. They turned out so nicely, and the grandparents loved them.
JJ says
*Luke
Andrea says
cute! We’re doing a handprint / footprint craft for a Christmas gift this year too 🙂
April says
For the past 4 years, my kids and I have chosen a family and played “secret santa”. We generally have tried to choose someone who has experienced extreme tragedy of some sort throughout the year (knowing that they are probably dreading the holidays). Most often we have wrapped up small gifts to be opened one each day for the 12 days leading up to Christmas. My kids are in their teens and LOVE the adventure of dropping off the gifts without being seen. (This has proved to be quite interesting and I’m sure we could write a book about our close calls) I know that nothing helps when families are grieving this much, but I want my kids to be thinking about others and to know that sometimes little things can help.
JJ says
New pajamas washed and wrapped to open Christmas Eve! I am also an Elf fan! We decorate Thanksgiving night. We also make cinnamon rolls or pinch bread for breakfast on Christmas morning.
Leanne says
ever since our boys were babies, we have volunteered at our Community Christmas Dinner… at least ONE of us goes! but usually, all 5 of us are able to do something! that has been one of our favorite traditions!
we also love going to Christmas Eve Candlelight Service…
My oldest son LOVES music! His birthday, and his Nana’s birthday are one day apart! In fact, my mom is a certified nurse midwife, who was in the room when he was born…( he was adopted 🙂 )… so, I take both of them to the amazing Purdue University Musical Organization’s Christmas Show every year!
one other fun tradition is buy each boy an ornament every year and putting it in their ornament box for the day they have their own trees! they get all mixed up every year; however, I know the day will come and I will have to sort them out and give them the box… and cry!
We have a lovely Advent book that we do almost every day… and we try to get to a local nursing home to spread some holiday cheer 🙂
Its easy to get caught up in the “stuff” of Christmas! I love these things that we do because it helps us to focus on the relationships we have with each other, our community, and keeping Christ in the middle of it all!
Donna G says
Since my mom, sister and I just moved to a new state this year, we are starting new traditions. We are all widows, and the holidays can be a very lonely time, so we have decided to have a pajama party. We all got new PJs, which I have washed and waiting in the linen closet with lavender sachet, and we will watch Christmas movies and drink hot chocolate. Christmas morning, we plan to go to my cousin’s house, where my aunt will be visiting, and have brunch and presents with them.
Amber Woods says
We always let our kids open one gift on Christmas Eve. It is always a new book and a pair of pjs. I usually get the pjs at a consignment sale and many times they are Christmas themed. This way I can wash them ahead of time and have them ready to wear so they wake up in Christmas pjs. We typically continue to wear these throughout the winter season.
MamaToo says
With my little family (husband, boy 5, girl 2, baby on the way), we don’t usually do certain traditions on certain days. We just scatter them throughout the month of December.
On Thanksgiving Day, we begin to put up a few decorations. I add one garland or candle or wreath, etc about every day. It’s much easier than a huge messy decorating session, and it spreads out the pleasure. After Christmas Day, I put it all away, one thing per day. It’s easier than one big clean up, and I can enjoy all the pretties in the middle of ugly winter for a few more weeks. I have a tiny tree for the children, with miniature ornaments. They may redecorate it as often as they like. We set up a nativity scene which they are also allowed to play with.
We chase Christmas lights a couple nights in our tiny town and the small town nearby–kids in jammies with sippies of hot chocolate. We stop at a convenience store and my husband buys each of us a treat.
My husband sang with the amazing Concordia Choir in Moorhead, Minnesota. They do a breathtaking Christmas concert every year with five choirs and an orchestra, and we watch one of the videos around Christmas Day. The kids enjoy seeing Daddy in the choir.
We set aside money for a big giving project in December, something tangible the children can help with. Last year we took baby stuff to a crisis pregnancy center. The children picked out baby toys and pacifiers and helped to load the cart with diapers and wipes. We had several more hundred dollars come in from an unexpected source, and it was so much fun to blow it all on babies!
Together we wrap all our Christmas and winter books and will open one a night leading up to Christmas.
This year I want to help the children pick out a gift for our baby on the way. For gifts for them, I look for a few fun things throughout the year, new or used. We buy a new table game for the whole family, such as a Peaceable Kingdom game. Sometimes my husband and I buy a game for us, such as Ticket to Ride or Settlers of Catan. Then we overdose on the game during his time off of school.
When my family gets together, we have stockings for all the grandkids–small, consumeable things like stickers, little candy bars, bubbles. The families give each other consumeable gifts for the whole family, like a big circle of cheese, a bottle of sparkling grape juice, a jar of honey from their farm, maple syrup from their own trees. That way we don’t spend lots of money on cluttery, obligatory gifts (mathems, as the Hobbits call them).
Makes me excited to think of all the fun to come!
Jenny says
I love your wooden nativity! Did you make it? I would love to find the template and have my husband make one! Thank you!
Andrea says
Dave’s grandma made it for us when we were first married. I don’t think she had any template though.
Roxanne says
We, too, have to watch Christmas Vacation every year- it’s so quotable, if not always appropriate 🙂
My mom made an Advent calendar for me and each of my cousins that we all still use today. It’s a wall hanging of a quilted Christmas tree, and each day you place an ornament with Velcro on it to the tree to help count down the days until Christmas. We’re trying to show our 2-year-old how to use it, but he just wants to put all the ornaments on at once!
Emily says
Our traditions have changed over the years as our family has grown. We try to keep it simple and focus on the birth of our Savior! One of my favorite Christmases was a couple years ago I baked banana bread and cookies and we visited the assisted living home right down the road from us Christmas morning. It was such a blessing to spend the morning with the elderly before heading off to a family party. And an easy way to serve with little ones (we only had three then, ages 6, 4 and 7 months). We’re planning to do that again this year. My big girls love to bake so it will be fun to bake goodies with them.
Julia says
Each year I take my children them to the decoration shop at Myer (a large department store here in Australia) and they each choose ONE decoration to buy and hang on the tree. These are stored in separate named boxes with our other Christmas decorations. When they leave home – they take their box of decorations with them to use on their own family Christmas tree.
It is lovely to see how their tastes change over the years and they recall buying the decorations each Christmas as we put up the tree.
Rhonda says
The first Christmas that we moved into our house, our oldest child was 1-1/2. I started a tradition of of making his handprint with paint on our Christmas tree skirt. I continued this when our daughter was born. Every December, our children look forward to putting up the Christmas tree and making a handprint on the tree skirt. We have been doing this now for 12 years. It is wonderful to see how the size of their hands have changed from year to year as they have grown. Sadly, we put my son’s last handprint on this year (his side is all full), and will only fit about two more for my daughter’s. I think it is one of my most cherished Christmas decorations!
Rebecca says
Speaking of making a tradition to give back, here’s what we did this year:
My son’s birthday is really close to Christmas and a) we don’t have space for tons of xmas and bday gifts in our home and b) our son really doesn’t NEED anything. So, for his birthday party I asked my friends to just bring a 5-10 dollar donation for the Compassion International child that we sponsor. (This boy shares the same birthday as our son, which we did on purpose). So while family will get to buy him gifts (they love doing this and I wouldn’t want to deprive them of the fun)- our friends get to do one less errand but still feel like they are contributing something. Plus it’s a lot less gifts to figure out where to put! My son will probably have 5 or 6 birthday gifts versus 12-15.
I don’t know if this will work in future years when he’s old enough to realize birthday=gifts, but we figured we could try to start the habit now and hopefully he’ll understand the idea of giving to someone who isn’t as fortunate.
Colleen says
Growing up, we would always attend Mass on Xmas eve and on the way home we would talk about driving around to look at the Christmas lights. We’d get home from church, change and then get ready to head out to look. And every year, for SOME reason my Mom at the last minute would decide not to go: getting a headache, needed to get the rolls going for the morning, too cold, etc. Well, years later we learned that THAT was when she would pull all of the gifts out of all the various hiding places she had them and assemble them in their bedroom so they could play Santa after we went to bed without creeping around the whole house! We weren’t allowed to wake our parents b/4 6am—oh that was hard. We’d get up way earlier than that, go through our stockings and then re-pack them all back up to re-open at the magical hour of 6
Lisa says
We have “breakfast for supper” on Christmas Eve, and we let the kids drink sparkling grape juice out of real wine glasses to make it more special. We do our immediate family gift exchange that evening. On Christmas morning, we open stockings – yes, all wrapped individually. It’s practical stuff (socks and underwear) as well as candy, earrings, etc. We head to church and then to one of our parents’ for Christmas dinner and gifts. I love that our kids know what to plan on and look forward to it every year.
Amanda says
1. I’m part of a mom’s group. We’re all pretty blessed. The last few years we’ve adopted a family through local hospitals (usually a family who has a child who is very ill), and everyone comes together to donate and give the family a Christmas they might not otherwise be able to afford. It’s probably one of my most favorite things. This year’s family wanted a convertible car seat, a red wagon, and diapers/wipes – the parents wanted nothing. When a family is in need of the absolute basics, the things we take for granted, I can’t help but want to provide them with those things.
2. Brunch with my parents and brother in the morning (where my mom always has Handel’s Messiah playing – growing up, she’d turn it on as soon as she came downstairs on Christmas morning), and then going to my inlaws and doing dinner with my husband’s parents and siblings and our niece and nephews. Our parents live only a few miles apart, and I love that we can spend time with everyone on Christmas Day.
3. Because Christmas Day is so hectic, my husband and I go to Christmas Eve services, then we come home and I put our Christmas dinner in the oven, and while it is cooking, we do our gifts to each other. Our son was born the week after Christmas this past year, so this is his first Christmas. I have a special pair of PJs for him that we’ll put him in that night.
Kim says
My mom-in-law made a simple Christmas tree cookie with green icing and sprinkles as far back as the 1940’s. When she moved to Heaven many years ago, I received the cookie cutter and began to make them every year each in her memory.
Last year, Christmas day fell on Sunday, and we had out of town company who could only come for a few hours. This included a great nephew, 9, and his sister, 7. We didn’t go to church, so for a worship time, I wrote a fun Christmas play where Mason and Karlee were TV reporters on location in Bethlehem, interviewing about six of the main Nativity people. They chose relatives to portray each character, and everyone read their part. It was fantastic and much more powerful than just reading Luke 2. We plan to repeat the play this year. (I am happy to email it to anyone who might want to use it.) Merry Christmas!
Patty@homemakersdaily.com says
Our extended family doesn’t get together very often but Christmas is the one time that we do. I really look forward to us all getting together and eating lunch together.
This year we considered not making the traditional menu (which is basically a repeat of Thanksgiving). I was okay with it until last week and then I started feeling kind of sad. It seemed anticlimatic for everyone to come over for lasagna or tacos. Big deal! So I made an executive decision to stick with our traditional menu. Yes, it’s a lot of work. Yes, we just had almost the same menu at Thanksgiving. But yes, it’s part of the tradition. So that’s my story and I’m sticking to it!
Gayle says
We open one gift each on Christmas Eve. We all open a new pair of pajamas. That way when we wake up early Christmas morning we are all cozy as we lounge around and enjoy our cinnamon rolls and coffee or milk in the morning before we head out to the family party. Those moments are priceless! My kids are teenagers and we have done this all their lives. I cannot see it ever changing 🙂
Carrie says
I have to watch the Christmas Story every year. I love it. It’s the best Christmas movie ever.
Shelly says
One Christmas tradition that has stayed with me throughout my 38 years of life is the stocking my mom made up for me and my sister. In it was an apple, and orange, some nuts in the shell, and toothbrush, toothpaste, hairbrush, etc. The apple, orange, and nuts (almost forgot hard candy, lol) were so we remembered how our grandparents had grown up during the depression, and how that’s all they got for christmas. My grandfather was from a more well to-do family, so he also received one toy, that was usually wooden. My grandmother was lucky if her older sisters bought her a doll… She was the youngest of a family of 16 children, so her older sisters were more like aunts to her. It always was a sober reminder of how lucky we were and are. We still do the apple and orange in the stocking, but now the nuts are in a bowl on the table for all to crack and enjoy! Also, my mother only had 3 gifts from santa, as that is what jesus received, and the gifts from her and my dad were always clothing or books.. practical gifts along that line. New shoes were the highlight! It was a good way for them to get us nice things, and also save on the budget, as we were always growing, and using clothing as a gift also supplied us with clothing for the next year until school was out!
Love to read these traditions, and hope that every family honors their traditions, because you are not only carrying on an act or gift that always happened before, you are carrying on the memories of the lives of those before us, and it’s so important that none of us forget who we came from and what they survived so that we could be alive to enjoy christmas now!
Nora@ The Dollar Holllering Homemaker says
We don’t exchange Christmas gifts in my family. Everyone gets a stocking, which we open after Midnight Mass. Instead of gifts, everyone picks a charity or cause that has special meaning to them. Then we do things like volunteer at the homeless shelter together, pick up trash by the river or buy gifts for the crisis nursery. We also do a secret santa for various people in our lives. We pick a family, neighbor and give a gift anonymously.
Kristin says
My dad was in the Navy and luckily he was never deployed during Christmas, but very frequently was on duty so we would eat Christmas Eve or Christmas Day dinner in the officers club. I loved going aboard those aircraft carriers during holidays- Easter, Thanksgiving, Christmas.
My in-laws have a tradition of always eating Christmas Eve dinner at a nice restaurant in the fancy part of town. Everyone else must also enjoy that tradition because we make our dinner reservations in September.
As for my family- I think its important for my kids to always wake up in their own beds in their own home on Christmas morning. So my tradition (more like rule) is that we do our traveling before or after and not on the day of.
Jen says
My baby is only 6-months old, so we’re definitely planning our new traditions we want to do once he understands.
We plan on doing a little celebration on the feast day of St. Nicholas (December 6) – have our son choose one of his toys/books/clothes to give to those less fortunate. We’ll also read the story of St. Nick and bake cookies!
For Christmas, we plan on giving him only 3 gifts since that’s how many Jesus got! Although this year I’m not sure if we’ll get him anything since he doesn’t know better and our relatives will be spoiling him 🙂
My husband also wants to start doing something with our stockings – since we never have before. He suggested picking a “theme” each year of something to stick in each other’s stockings, like candy or something else simple.
muriel says
We open our stockings on St. Nick’s Day (Dec 6th). It’s a fun way to celebrate with something small early in the season.
Andrea says
fun! Hope you enjoyed your St. Nick’s Day stockings yesterday 🙂
Audra says
Simple things make me smile. I’m not sure what you have coded with your site, but I copied idea #2 about simplistic gift giving ideas to send to my husband in an email as an idea for our children next year. I was please to find that when I pasted it, it also pasted where it originated from with a link to your site. Thanks! Saved me the time of going back and copying the link so that he could read the post himself. 🙂
Leanne says
every year we go to Christmas Eve Service…and since our first born came home (8 years ago!), we have volunteered at our community Christmas Dinner for a few hours on 12/25 to encourage others who are lonely or hurting on that day! the boys always love it!
This year our children are also helping with a special Christmas Service on the 23rd that our church puts on at a local nursing home! they play the piano, sing Christmas Carols, and hand out ornaments! The older people LOVE the little ones, no matter what they do! even if they are a bit “mischevious” that day!!
Jen says
We do a few things. One much simpler gift giving routine that I wish I had started when my kiddos were younger is four gifts: something I want, something I need, something to wear, and something to read. Can’t go wrong with those!
Stockings are also a BIG deal in our house. Each child gets 10-12 small stocking gifts and I wrap every single one of them separately–packs of gum, books of stamps, packs of tic tacs, body wash, etc. Yes, it’s work! But it’s what my mom always did for us and I have continued the tradition with our kids. We save the stocking for later on Christmas night and I think the kids look forward to the stockings more than the presents! Our daughter got married this past August and she wanted to make sure that she still got a stocking for Christmas this year! 🙂
Laura says
Love your simplistic gift giving routine. That is similar to what we do… I always like to include 1 book also. 🙂
Marie says
Now that my children are older with jobs and such we can’t travel to be with family. But we still have our Christmas eve meal together and open presents after. Then we watch movies, eat desserts and play games/cards. I always make some sort of breakfast casserole for christmas morning and we just hangout together. Enjoy your little one while she is little and growing up because those years will just fly by.
JoAnn C. says
Decorating my 18 inch Christmas tree entirely in huge Detroit Lions ornaments. It’s a new one mom and I started a few years ago after dad died.
Carlen says
When my brother and I were young, we got to pick out our wrapping paper and my parents wrapped our presents in our own specific paper. When we were older, my mom always used the “to/from” gift tags, but made them “from” someone who was a hint about what the gift was. For instance, one year I got a pair of leather boots and they were “from” Nancy Sinatra (who sang “These boots are made for walkin'”), and once I got a Justin Timberlake CD and it was “from” Britney Spears (back when they were the “hottest” couple).
We also always did a Christmas Brunch in our pajamas around the tree on Christmas morning.
A new tradition we’ve started with my daughter is spending Christmas Eve driving around the neighborhoods in my parent’s hometown looking at all the Christmas Lights. We live in a bigger city and not everyone decorates, but almost everyone in my parent’s hometown decorates.
Melissa says
About mid-December we bring out a special red and green Christmas Jingle Bell collar for our dog. It’s hilarious because he really seems to love wearing it and he sounds like one of Santa’s reindeer. We usually go to my husband’s parents house on Christmas Eve and spend the night. On Christmas Eve after dinner we unwrap the lottery scratch tickets that are in our stockings (and yes, they get wrapped in gift wrap) while drinking cocoa or coffee and spend a lot of time joking about who ‘always’ wins and who doesn’t. On Christmas morning we get up and unwrap our gifts while still in our PJs and take lots of funny pictures. Later in the day we have a special dinner that my father in law prepares and just enjoy time together as a family.
Jill says
Traditions are what the holidays are all about! One of the things we started with our son who is now 15 is a RACK (Random Acts of Christmas Kindness) Day. We pick one day and do all sorts of things for others without them knowing it. One of my favorites was putting a dollar bill in the toy section of the dollar store and catching my son watching the little boy that found it! It was awesome! Another thing we have done is only giving 4 things to our son for Christmas: 1. Something he wants; 2. Something he needs; 3. Something he likes; and 4. Something he reads. Along the same lines you are doing – It saves time, money, etc. and allows you to really enjoy the holiday!!!
Happy Holidays!!!
Stel says
I like the coded gifts!
We started last year, to give a gift to charity organisations. Last year we took two names from the Christmas tree in the library and my boys helped choose gifts. This year we registered for the Santa’s Shoebox Project (www.santashoebox.co.za) that provides a spcific list of items that should fit in a shoebox. We chose two teenagers, as they are not as ppular as the little ones. Next year we’ll start collecting items throughout the year, as we know how it works now. We’ll choose two teens again, as well as two boys of he same age than mine.
I also bake cookies with my kids and let them decorate, hang it on the tree and they eat it as fast as they can!
Lauren says
We have a Birthday cake for Jesus every year. It’s funny because my husband did the same thing growing up, so we do it with our kids now. We sing Happy Birthday with candles, birthday hats and all. 🙂
Jamie says
Some things that we do every year are:
1. Advent calendar- I have little ones so I purchased one by Fischer Price that has soft fabric pieces.
2. Christmas Cookies- I have simplified this over the years. I used to do 1 huge day of baking but then even after giving a lot away we still threw out so many. We just couldn’t eat them fast enough. So, now we each choose 1 cookie that we want that year and make 1 cookie/week over the season. We are able to share and enjoy without having to throw them out. It is also a lot less stressful doing 1 batch at a time.
3. Cocoa, Cookies and Christmas lights. We make 1 batch of cookies in the afternoon. Then, after dinner we shower and dress the kids in Pj’s. I fill up sippie cups and sports bottles with homemade hot chocolate and we load up the car to go look at lights. If the little ones fall asleep it’s ok because the are already dressed for bed.
4. We also pick out an ornament for each child every year. It is something special that happened over the past year. (i.e. a bike if they learned to ride or a favorite character, big brother ornament, etc) We wrap them and give them the night we decorate the Christmas tree.
5. The Christmas Nail- This is an ornament that we purchased at our local Christian bookstore. It is a very large nail. It has the story of the nail and a poem that comes along with it. We read it together and then place the nail as out first ornament each year. It helps remind us that Christ came as a baby at Christmas time so he could grow up and die for us!
Deb says
I had to laugh about the coded gifts. My mil did that once when my dh was growing up and then she lost the paper where she wrote down the code, so the boys got Barbies, girls got Tonka, etc……and you would have thought she would have learned, but years later after we were married, she worked at a department store and they wrapped everything for free, but again she forgot whose was whose so we opened and then guessed and exchanged, but sometimes she picks out wrong sizes, etc, so it was absolutely hilarious, still is in fact.